Love is the core emotion that perceives, memorizes, automates, represents and manifests connectivity and unity.
Love, on the one hand, is capable of reflecting what is common, what unites, the feeling of togetherness, both individually and collectively. On the other hand, it is the binding force that consolidates this union through stable links. Thus, it creates structural integrity, strength and resilience in the systems, protecting them from external interference. This is why love is also responsible for the feeling of security and intimacy, as well as nurturing the feeling of rootedness that comes as a result of being and feeling connected to the place where one can live, coexist and evolve.
Love is responsible for the feeling of identity, which bestows the sense of connection and union with oneself and with all that one loves.
Some people consciously develop the feeling of love for the Earth, our mother, the macrosystem to which we belong and to which we are linked through the biosphere.
Universal Love is the energy that enables and creates the union between a consciousness of being, a body and the space-time that it occupies; it is the binding force that unifies and fuses the tonal with the nagual, the automaton with the selfhood.
Love keeps, coheres and conserves. In this way it protects the symmetrical contents that one already possesses, providing the tranquility of having and the possibility of resting. Love is the calmest of all emotions, and so it has the tendency to stagnate if one is not careful.
Love binds learning and experience in memory, although memory itself is indexed by sadness.
Love allows us to share with other lives, spaces and times. It is the force that holds together the attentional bubble in which we exist. It allows us to experience closeness.
Love has a tendency to be static, due to its clinging and sticky character.
Love is perceived as peace, tranquility and rest, feelings that are the result of the good performance of the motive force, once it has finished executing the movements and works that were necessary to reach the balance again, which had been lost due to alterations, wear and tear or different problems and needs. It is an act of love to share that peace (a result of the transitory absence of worries) with the loved ones for a while, increasing the feeling of connection and unity with them, until love activates recreation, so that it may seek new delights, renewals, resources and symmetries, both out of necessity and for the pleasure of learning or recreation itself.
True love, in a couple, is the feeling of union and the real need to preserve each other's symmetrical contents, for the sake of greater development, compared to the development which one would have as an individual. In this case, one plus one is more than two.
Love is also reflected in the house, in the home, in the space where one can recover from the struggles of the world, and rest.
In sexuality, love allows one to feel a connection with the other, complementary without dominance and intimacy. True love is faithful and yet it does not tie.
Paternal-maternal-filial love aims to create a sense of connection (without desire for ownership) towards children, so that the task of caring for and protecting them develops naturally as they mature and achieve sufficient self-development to be able to move forward on their own on their evolutionary and vital path.
Love is the expression of the holographic aspect of reality, which allows access to information located at a specific point in the universe from anywhere else, because inside an attention bubble, everything is intertwined. It is also the expression of the One and unity in any of its forms.
Love, in its symmetrical form, is the energy that must be used to connect, link, unite and share only what is good and necessary.
The essential virtue of love is kindness. This is the only one of the six essential virtues that is fundamentally directed towards others. It allows the individual to foster a different model from that of dominator-dominated, encouraging respect and the command that “my benefit is your benefit and your benefit is my benefit”.
Love is the core emotion that shifts from the painful phase to the pleasurable phase.
Love is the child of the motive force and the mother of recreation. Effort generates results and stability. Integrity requires renewal.
Love and fear are a couple; they form one of the three diagonals of the emotional core. They balance and complement each other, forming the conservative power, whose meta-function is will.
The synergy between love and fear is called stability.
Love is controlled by sadness and in turn exerts control over joy. Separation inhibits connection and stillness restrains expansion.
Love, together with joy and recreation, is part of the pleasurable core.
The emotional deviation of love are obsessive patterns, which corrupt stability.
Undoubtedly, distortions in love (keeping together what ought to be separated) have been and are the most important source of human suffering. Yet, in reality, love never hurts, for it is a joyful emotion. What does hurt is the sadness generated by the losses produced by the union of the incompatible, the fatigue derived from the motive force that wears itself out in order to maintain by force what love does not achieve, or the anguish produced by the fear of the damage that one will keep doing to oneself by continuing to share what is the source of emotional misery.
The corruption of love generates attachment, among other things. This is nourished by the perverse need to possess and conserve. In Emoenergetica, attachment is a distortion of love, and the fifth source of suffering. One of its effects is the obsessive intensification, not only of perverse love, but also of the exaggerated need for companionship, sharing and communication. Fear of loneliness and a feeling of lack of love also feed attachment. Not only is one attached to people, but this attachment can also be directed towards other beings, to things and to one's own life. In this case, attachment is nourished by fear of dying and by worries. Attachment generates selfishness; this can be compensated for by promoting in oneself love for one's own life and kindness towards others.
The love of life is the feeling of connection with that energy that holds together everything that exists: the pure Universal Love. It is the recognition that we are the mechanism through which Creation is perceiving and experiencing itself. The love of life is accepting as one's own the challenge of existing.
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